Nakajima Miyuki … Nakajima Miyuki
I’ve been having problems staying focused recently, and a very good brother of mine recommended me this very good article
from life hack. interestingly, the version he recommended to me has chinese
here are the best lines:
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Gatekeeping Tips
If the real work that needs doing is offline, disable the internet for an hour at a time.
Turn email checks into an hourly habit, not an “as the box gets mail” habit.
Don’t answer your cell phone when working on something important. Call back later.
If you can’t work at work, negotiate finding a new place to get things done.
Television means: “I don’t need this time and it doesn’t matter to me.” (Almost always. Really.)
Bugdet your entertainment time vs. production time. Never cheat the other.
Examine every opportunity along the lines of time vs. projects already underway.
Try working part of your day in “off-hour” times, to get more done with fewer people around.
Drive and Focus Tips
Write your goals clearly. Post them in eyeball view of where you work most.
Spend time with focused people. Meet and befriend those who are where you want to be.
Consume as much material about your prime focus as you can budget.
Analyze your past experiences. Be clear. List your successes. Examine your failures.
Stay true to a particular vision of what you want to do.
Don’t give up too early.
Envision your success. Write about it. Then read that daily or weekly.
Learn how to “chunk.” Hit each milestone and move to the next. Be methodical.
Develop habits around success and drive.
Recharge your batteries with good sleep and food.
Develop your relationship with your family. It nourishes the other goals.
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i think a very big mistake i made before, is that i care little about small things. although all that matters is the heart. but the heart has to start from somewhere.
thank you bro.
although i still have some doubts…
◎ 勿扬人过，反躬默省焉，有或类是，丞思悔而速改也。
◎ 甘苦自得。
◎ 能食淡饭者方许尝异味，能溷市嚣者方许游名山，能受折磨者方许处功名。
◎ 善观人者观己，善观己者观心。
◎ 多躁者必无沉毅之识，多畏者必无踔越之见，多欲者必无慷慨之节，多言者必无质实之心，多勇者必无文学之雅。
◎ 诚无悔，恕无怨，和无仇(well, he killed millions.)，忍无辱。
◎ 绮语背道，杂学乱性。
◎ 一念忽略，便有错言错事。
◎ 越自尊大，越见器小。
◎ 好胜人者，必无胜人处，能胜人，自不居胜。
◎ 君子但尽人事，不计天命，而天命即在人事之中。
◎ 才智英敏者，宜加浑厚学问。
◎ 事以急败，思因缓得。
◎ 能甘淡泊，便有几分真学问。
◎ 只是一个见小，便使百事不成，亦致百行尽堕。
◎ 傲人不如者必浅人，疑人不肖者必小人。
◎ 人该省事，不该怕事。人该脱俗，不可矫俗。不该顺时(why?)，不可趋时(what?)。
◎ 因循二事，误尽一生。鼓舞精神，方破此弊。(yeah that’s right)
◎ 受不得穷，立不得品，受不得屈，做不得事。
◎ 好谈己长只是浅。
◎ 居心平，然后可历世路之险。
◎ 事事顺吾意而言者，此小人也，急宜远之。
◎ 人之所学，不可为人所容，为人所容则下矣。(what does it mean?)
◎ 常沉静，则含蓄义理而应事有力。
◎ 富贵家宜劝他宽，聪明人宜劝他厚。
◎ 决不可存苟且心，决不可做偷薄事，决不可学轻狂态，决不可做惫赖人。
◎ 当至忙促时，要越加检点。当至急迫时，要越加饬守。当至快竟时，要越加谨慎。
◎ 盘根错节，可以验我之才；波流风靡，可以验我之操；艰难险阻，可以验我之思；震撼折衡，可以验我之力；含垢忍辱，可以验我之操。
◎ 要与世间撑持事业，须先立定脚跟始得。
◎ 听言当以理观。一闻在辄以为据，往往多失。
◎ 举世惟一真字难得。
◎ 凡将举事，必先平意清神，清神意平，物乃可正。
◎ 人之精神不可无所寄。
◎ 为善者常受福，为利者常受祸，心安为福，心劳为祸。
